The 5 Books I Finished in September

* Linking up with Anne Bogel at Quick Lit *

Four out of the five books I read last month were gripping, suspenseful, and/or inspiring. While I didn’t love every single book, I truly enjoyed all five reading experiences, and that’s what it’s all about. Without further ado, here’s the scoop on the five books I finished in September.

Dark Matter by Blake Crouch 

My Thoughts: When everyone in my literary circle started buzzing about this suspenseful science fiction novel, which was a recent Book of the Month Club pick, I put in a request at the library. I loved Stephen King’s 11/22/63 and was in the mood for another time travel adventure. I’m really glad I read the book and thoroughly enjoyed the beginning and the end. I thought it got kind of boring in the middle, but it picked up for an exciting finish. I’d highly recommend this one if you’re in the mood for a (mostly) fast-paced, plot-driven adventure.

Length: 342 pages

When I Read It: August 25-September 3, 2016

Where I Found It/How I Read It: Reserved a copy at the library; read it the old-fashioned way.


Just Mercy: A Story of Justice and Redemption by Bryan Stevenson

My Thoughts: Everyone should read this book. When I rule the world, I’ll make you all read it. (Just kidding. I am wholeheartedly against authoritarian regimes.) Although I wouldn’t call it a literary masterpiece, Stevenson’s depiction of the Equal Justice Initiative’s mission and campaign for the basic human rights of vulnerable Americans, particularly the pursuit of racial justice in the prison system, is beyond admirable. Read it, read it, read it. Please and thank you.

Length: 336 pages

When I Read It: March 19-September 10, 2016

Where I Found It/How I Read It: Won it in a Facebook giveaway; read it the old-fashioned way.

Memorable Quote: “I reflected on how mass imprisonment has littered the national landscape with carceral monuments of reckless and excessive punishment and ravaged communities with our hopeless willingness to condemn and discard the most vulnerable among us. I told the congregation that Walter’s case had taught me that the death penalty is not about whether people deserve to die for the crimes they commit. The real question of capital punishment in this country is, Do we deserve to kill?


Finding God in the Waves: How I Lost My Faith and Found It Again Through Science by Mike McHargue

My Thoughts: I have been a fangirl of Mike McHargue for a while now and tune into his analytical insights and Floridian drawl on The Liturgists and Ask Science Mike podcasts. I was really looking forward to reading the full story of his faith journey and decided to preorder his first book. I started reading the day it arrived in my mailbox and literally could not put it down. Whether or not you agree with the conclusions he has come to about God and Church, the way he tells his own story is so powerful, well written, and thought-provoking.

Length: 224 pages

When I Read It: September 13-14, 2016

Where I Found It/How I Read It: Pre-ordered it from Amazon for delivery on release day; read it the old-fashioned way.

Memorable Quote: “I doubt I’ll ever be able to resolve the contradiction between the indifferent universe I understand through science and the intimacy I find with God in prayer. All I know is that even when I was working through existential doubts about God’s nature and character, prayer was the one place where God consistently met me.”


The Silkworm by Robert Galbraith

My Thoughts: After devouring the first Cormoran Strike book, The Cuckoo’s Calling, I was eager to jump into book two with high expectations. I didn’t love this one though. It took me a long time to get through it, and the plot about the gruesome murder of a writer and all the different players in the publishing world just didn’t grab my attention. I had a hard time keeping all of the names straight, probably because I kept picking up the book and putting it back down. I do love Cormoran Strike as a character, though, so I’m planning to read book three at some point.

Length: 455 pages

When I Read It: July 31-September 28, 2016

Where I Found It/How I Read It: Reserved a copy at the library; read it the old-fashioned way.


Hillbilly Elegy: A Memoir of a Family and Culture in Crisis by J.D. Vance

My Thoughts: This inside peek at Appalachian culture explores how poverty and complicated family histories affect people over the course of their lives and form their views of the world. Although Vance is only a few years my junior, his turbulent childhood in Kentucky and Ohio was very different from my own. Not only did I find it interesting to learn about life in a different part of the U.S., I also gained a better understanding of a group of my fellow Americans.

Length: 272 pages

When I Read It: September 16-30, 2016

Where I Found It/How I Read It: Reserved a copy at the library; read it the old-fashioned way.

Memorable Quote: “We talk about the value of hard work but tell ourselves that the reason we’re not working is some perceived unfairness: Obama shut down the coal mines, or all the jobs went to the Chinese. These are the lies we tell ourselves to solve the cognitive dissonance—the broken connection between the world we see and the values we preach.”


As for my October reads, I just finished the first book in Tana French’s Dublin Murder Squad series, and now I’m impatiently waiting for the rest French’s books to show up for me at the library. You can friend or follow me on Goodreads for the latest updates.

The 4 Books I Finished in August

Summer is drawing to a close in New Hampshire, and I’m not disappointed about that. I like the routine of school and regularly scheduled activities. I hit a milestone with my reading in August; I completed my Goodreads Challenge of reading 40 books during 2016! It felt great to meet that goal. This past month was only so-so on the book choice front. I didn’t find any favorite-favorites, and I seemed to get in a rut of not making enough time to read. Today is the start of a new month, so I’m going to forge ahead at a good clip. Here are the four books I finished in August.

Present Over Perfect: Leaving Behind Frantic for a Simpler, More Soulful Way of Living by Shauna Niequist

My Thoughts: Shauna Niequist’s memoir about slowing down her fast-paced public life and trading “perfectionism” for presence contains gems of wisdom about focusing on what’s truly important to you and setting your own pace for your life. Although I’ve seen some folks critique the book as not easily relatable because Niequist is in the spotlight with a big writing-and-speaking career and most others of us are not, I really enjoyed her story and was able to gain some perspective on my own tendency to get frantic about things that are silly. The cover of this book is gorgeous, and I’m glad I preordered a hard copy for my shelf.

Length: 240 pages

When I Read It: August 9-11, 2016

Where I Found It/How I Read It: Preordered a hard copy on Amazon for arrival on release day; read it the old-fashioned way.

Memorable Quote: “In the space that used to be filled with a whirring ball of anxiety, now there is a new patience, a new settledness, a new desire to be just exactly where I am right now.”


Kitchens of the Great Midwest by Ryan J. Stradal

My Thoughts: My friend Mary from my favorite online book forum recommended this book to me. It traces the fictional story of Eva Thorvald and her growth from a quirky, foodie child to an all-star chef. The individual chapters in the book highlight different characters in Eva’s life and build a vivid picture of the food culture that contributed to Eva’s success. This book will definitely make you giggle and probably make your stomach growl.

Length: 10 hours, 7 minutes

When I Read It: August 2-14, 2016

Where I Found It/How I Read It: Placed a hold through Overdrive; listened to the audiobook.


The Name of God is Mercy by Pope Francis

My Thoughts: I love Pope Francis’s focus on mercy (I think Jesus might too) and his description of the Church as a field hospital for the wounded, so I was really looking forward to reading The Name of God is Mercy. The book is actually the result of an interview given by Pope Francis to Vatican reporter Andrea Tornielli. Although I enjoyed learning more about Pope Francis’s definition of mercy as prompted by Tornielli’s questions, I was more moved by the appendix, which is a copy of Pope Francis’s letter declaring the Year of Mercy, than the interview itself.

Length: 176 pages

When I Read It: August 11-15, 2016

Where I Found It/How I Read It: Bought it at Gibson’s Bookstore; read it the old-fashioned way.

Memorable Quote: “To refrain from judgement and condemnation means, in a positive sense, to know how to accept the good in every person and to spare him any suffering that might be caused by our partial judgement, our presumption to know everything about him. But this is still not sufficient to express mercy. Jesus asks us also to forgive and to give.”


Cheaper by the Dozen by Frank B. Gilbreth, Jr. and Ernestine Gilbreth Carey

My Thoughts: One of the categories for the Modern Mrs. Darcy 2016 Reading Challenge is to read “a book you’ve already read at least once,” so I picked up this childhood favorite a few weeks ago and decided to give it a re-read. To my surprise, I didn’t like it as much this time around. I actually had to force myself to finish it, and I probably would have abandoned it if it wasn’t part of the reading challenge. I wonder if I’ve watched one too many TLC shows about large family dynamics, but I just didn’t find the Gilbreths as charming or fascinating this time around. I did, however, still cry at the end of the book.

Length: 224 pages

When I Read It: August 10-24, 2016

Where I Found It/How I Read It: Picked it up off my shelf; read it the old-fashioned way.


I already have several promising books going for September: Just Mercy by Bryan Stevenson, Dark Matter by Blake Crouch, and It by Stephen King. I can’t guarantee I’ll finish all three this month, but I have a good feeling about my reading life in September. You can friend or follow me on Goodreads for the latest updates.

The 5 Books I Finished in July

* Linking up with Sheila Craig at The Deliberate Reader and Anne Bogel at Quick Lit *

I was all business with reading this month – with three books to finish for books clubs, I actually – nerd alert – wrote out a book priority list so I’d finish everything in time. Without further ado, here are the five books I finished in July:

I Am Malala: The Girl Who Stood Up for Education and Was Shot by The Taliban by Malala Yousafzai and Christina Lamb

My Thoughts: The thing that struck me the most about this book was this: Although Malala was and is extremely brave in standing up for girls’ educational rights in Pakistan and endured a terrible act of terrorism, she also was a typical young girl who experienced normal ups and downs during her childhood. I would recommend this book as required reading for American middle school kids, as it might help them to gain appreciation for their easy access to education; to realize that even on the other side of the world, kids are kids with similar hopes and dreams; and to be inspired by Malala’s courage.

Length: 9 hours, 55 minutes on audio (I sped it up to about 1.5 speed, though, so it didn’t take quite that long.)

When I Read It: June 2-July 3, 2016

Where I Found It/How I Read It: Placed a hold on the audiobook through Overdrive; listened via the Overdrive app.

Memorable Quote: “When someone takes away your pens you realize quite how important education is.”


A Fatal Grace by Louise Penny

My Thoughts: I almost gave up on the Inspector Gamache books after I read the first one and thought, “Well, that was OK, but why is everyone crazy about these books?” I’m so glad I gave book 2 a chance because I really loved it. Penny’s writing is much more even in A Fatal Grace, and the mystery is so much more engaging. We keep learning more about the quirky characters and the sweet-yet-murderous town of Three Pines. There are hints of trouble ahead for Inspector Gamache, and I’m intrigued. I have books 3 and 4 out from the library right now, and I hope I can get to them before they’re due back.

Length: 320 pages

When I Read It: July 3-9, 2016

Where I Found It/How I Read It: Placed a hold at the library; read it the old-fashioned way.

Memorable quote: “In my teens my drug of choice was acceptance, in my twenties it was approval, in my thirties it was love, in my forties it was Scotch. That lasted a while,’ she admitted. ‘Now all I really crave is a good bowel movement.”


The Cuckoo’s Calling by Robert Galbraith 

My Thoughts: I’ve been looking for a series to dive into, and this month I found two – the Inspector Gamache books as noted above ^^^ AND the Cormoran Strike series, which begins with The Cuckoo’s Calling. I loved Galbraith’s (aka J.K. Rowling) introduction of the gruff-yet-lovable private investigator Strike and his overqualified secretary and all of the intriguing characters in this London mystery. I found myself wanting to read it all the time and have already started book 2, The Silkworm. I’ve never read a Harry Potter book, but I’ll call myself a J.K. Rowling fan now. My informant at the library says this is slated to be a seven-book series. Yes.

Length: 480 pages

When I Read It: June 28-July 19, 2016

Where I Found It/How I Read It: Placed a hold at the library; read it the old fashioned way.


Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski

My Thoughts: This book was recommended to me by smart women as a book “every woman should read,” and I concur: the science and psychology are eye-opening. This concludes my review of this book. You’re lucky I even told you I read it.

Length: 416 pages

When I Read It: June 15-July 27, 2016

Where I Found It/How I Read It: Bought it at Gibson’s Bookstore; read it the old-fashioned way.

Memorable Quote: “Emotions are tunnels. You have to go all the way through the darkness to get to the light at the end.”


What Alice Forgot by Liane Moriarty

My Thoughts: I loved diving into the world of Alice Mary Love – a 39-year-old wife and mother of three who fell off her bike at spin class and lost the memories from the last ten years of her life. Moriarty, as always, writes relatable characters and deftly weaves in humor with serious storylines. I think every young (in age or at heart) woman should read this book because it is both highly entertaining and contains a great deal of wisdom on marriage and family life.

Length: 488 pages

When I Read It: July 25-31, 2016

Where I Found It/How I Read It: Received it from my fellow SortaLiterary Traveling Book Club member, Mary; read it the old-fashioned way.

Memorable Quote: “Early love is exciting and exhilarating. It’s light and bubbly. Anyone can love like that. But … after you’ve seen the worst and the best– well, that sort of love is ineffable. It deserves its own word.”


You can friend or follow me on Goodreads for the latest updates on my August reading progress.

My 4 Book Clubs

Welcome to The Bookspired Linkup! Each month we share posts that fit The Bookspired Linkup theme: exploring how a book has inspired you. You can read about my inspiration for starting the linkup here. My post this month is a little different – rather than exploring how a book has inspired me, I’m sharing one of the ways I stay inspired to read … by belonging to book clubs. Check out the linked-up posts through the blue inLinkz button at the bottom of this post and add your own, or participate through the comment feature.

When we moved to New Hampshire, I knew I wanted to join or start a book club. Since I was the new girl in town, my options were limited. Should I join one at the library, which I assumed would be made up of people much older than me? Invite the couple of people I was getting to know and hope they would bring interested friends? Put a sign out on my mailbox?

While I pondered these questions, I became involved with some online book communities through Facebook. First, I joined a one-time discussion of Mrs. Dalloway hosted by Laura Tremaine of I really enjoyed it, but Laura’s Read Great Books discussion series is currently on hold, so it’s not something I could count on for a regular fix. Slowly but surely, though, as I poked around the interweb literary circles, I found groups that were doing just what I hoped … casually, intelligently, politely discussing books. So I joined them. All of them. And now here we are: me and my four book clubs.

The Red Couch Book Club

An online book discussion group for readers of SheLoves Magazine, this club gathers to discuss a new book every other month, with some pop-up chatting in between. There is an emphasis on books of a spiritual nature, which I like. I enjoyed the thoughtful discussion about Richard Rohr’s Falling Upward and am looking forward to discussing I Am Malala with the ladies this month.

The Deliberate Reader Book Club

Sheila Craig, creator of, leads an online book club with a new book every month. I like the way Sheila formats the discussion; she posts questions throughout the month rather than lumping the entire discussion into one night or a few days. It’s less overwhelming that way, and you can jump in late if you are still working on the book, which is what I did with this month’s pick, Robert Galbraith’s (AKA J.K. Rowling) The Cuckoo’s Calling. I also appreciate the way Sheila includes a series of basic questions, such as how you read the book (e-reader or hard copy) and whether or not you liked the cover – these questions warm up the discussion and encourage people to participate.16160797

The SortaLiterary Traveling Book Club

This is a spinoff of a spinoff group. Fans of the Sorta Awesome podcast started discussing books and reading in the SortaLiterary group, and one of the members shared her experience in a traveling book club, and it sounded so awesome that the SortaLiterary Traveling Book Club was born. Here’s how it works: In small groups of six to eight people, each person picks out a book and a small notebook, writes a bit about herself and why she chose the book in the notebook, and mails the book and notebook to the next person in the group. (The group organizer collects addresses and assigns who mails books to whom.) That person then has two months to read the book, write her own thoughts in the journal, and mail the package off to her designated person. Basically, each book and journal travels around the group until they reach the original person. It’s an old-fashioned, paper-and-snail-mail book club. Isn’t it romantic? Below is the book I chose to mail, Olive Kitteridge, and the first book that was sent to me, What Alice Forgot.

The We Still Read! Book Club

In case you were feeling sorry for me that I only have friends online, you can relax. A new friend in Layout 1town recently invited me to join her in-person book club. I was so pleased to be asked to join a real live book club in my own town. The group only met once before I joined, and I’m jumping in with them for our next pick, My Brilliant Friend by Elena Ferrante. I’m looking forward to talking books with these ladies.

So that’s the scoop on my four book clubs. It’s been fun to get involved with these communities online and in real life. I don’t feel any pressure to read every book every time – I do what I can and enjoy what I do. I’m grateful that I live in the 21st century with plenty of opportunities to connect with other people about books.

The 4 Books I Finished in June

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In June I read two books I loved, one book I liked, and one not-so-thrilling thriller. Not a bad run, eh? I’m going to jump right in with the four books I finished in June.

No One Knows  by J.T. Ellison

My Thoughts: This was the not-so-thrilling thriller. Aubrey, whose husband disappeared the night of a friend’s bachelor party, is still struggling five years later after he is eventually declared dead and, through various encounters with suspicious people, wonders whether her husband is really gone. It is a page turner, but I was hoping for a big payoff at the end, and I felt let down. I know a few people who have really enjoyed this book, so I would recommend it with the caveat that it’s a good story but not a thriller. I liked it better than The Girl on the Train (which I didn’t like much at all) but not as much as The Good Girl and Gone Girl (both of which I really liked). If you have any thriller recommendations, please send them my way … I like this genre, but my thrill threshold is high!

Length: 368 pages

When I Read It: May 31-June 10, 2016

Where I Found It/How I Read It: Bought it at Gibson’s Bookstore; read it the old-fashioned way.


Fangirl by Rainbow Rowell

My Thoughts: I resisted reading this book for a while, even after hearing people I trust gush about it, because I didn’t love Rowell’s big hit Eleanor & Park, so I thought her writing just wasn’t my style. Well, I was WRONG. This book is absolutely delightful. I found myself smirking, giggling, and swooning over the story of Cath, an awkward but lovable fan fiction writer, her twin sister Wren (Get it?), and the characters they meet during their first semester at college. This is a perfect book if you need a pick-me-up or want something light but well-written to take to the beach. It’s one of my favorites of the year. And I won’t hesitate before giving Rowell’s other books a try.

Length: 445 pages

When I Read It: June 10-21, 2016

Where I Found It/How I Read It: Placed a hold through the Overdrive app; read it on the Kindle app on my phone.

Memorable quote: “There are other people on the Internet. It’s awesome. You get all the benefits of ‘other people’ without the body odor and the eye contact.”


You Learn By Living by Eleanor Roosevelt

My Thoughts: When this book went on sale for $1.99 on the Amazon Kindle deals, I snatched it up. I’d heard it was a flying-under-the-radar great book, and I really enjoyed learning more about Eleanor Roosevelt and pondering her nuggets of advice. It’s a very short book and not an amazing literary work, but still, I’d highly recommend it. There’s some great wisdom to soak up.

Length: 211 pages

When I Read It: June 10-June 26, 2016

Where I Found It/How I Read It: Bought it from Amazon; read it on the Kindle app on my phone.

Memorable Quote: “I wish with all my heart that every child could be so imbued with a sense of the adventure of life that each change, each readjustment, each surprise–good or bad–that came along would be welcomed as part of the whole enthralling experience.”


The Naked Now: Learning to See as the Mystics See by Richard Rohr

My Thoughts: This is the second book I’ve read by Richard Rohr, and I’ve come to realize he’s one of the great religious thinkers living among us. In The Naked Now, Rohr shows us how we can move beyond our typical human issues into a higher level of spirituality. I turned down many pages of this book to mark my favorite passages. (I would have used a highlighter, but my kids take them and wreak havoc.) I can’t wait to read more of Rohr’s work. I need to space them out because it’s pretty heavy reading that takes some time to process.

Length: 187 pages

When I Read It: May 31-June 29, 2016

Where I Found It/How I Read It: Bought it at Gibson’s Bookstore; read it the old-fashioned way.

Memorable Quote: “The enormous breakthrough is that when you honor and accept the divine image within yourself, you cannot help but see it in everybody else, too, and you know it is just as undeserved and unmerited as it is in you. That is why you stop judging, and that is how you start loving unconditionally and without asking whether someone is worthy or not.”

I mean, really. It doesn’t get much better than that.


You can friend or follow me on Goodreads for the latest updates on my July reading progress.

2016 Reading Challenge – Midyear Update

At the beginning of the year (almost six months ago already?!) I set reading goals for 2016 and gave myself some structure by joining the Goodreads and Modern Mrs. Darcy reading challenges. My goal was to read 40 books this year, and so far I’ve read 30 books. Most months I’ve been finishing 5 books, so I’m on track to read about 60 books in 2016. I’m really happy with my progress. It feels great to be chugging along with a hobby that’s enjoyable, good for my brain, and free (at least when I use the library and don’t rack up fines).

Some of my favorites thus far:

Although I’ve been reading at a good clip, I haven’t been keeping up with my monthly plan for the Modern Mrs. Darcy Reading Challenge. It was a little too structured for my ever-changing to-read list, and I’ve decided to switch up some of my book choices. I’m allowed to do that, right? Here are the categories I’ve checked off so far and my new, less-structured plan for completing the remaining categories.

Completed Categories

√  A BOOK THAT WAS BANNED AT SOME POINT: In Cold Blood by Truman Capote. Read this one in January back when I was sticking to the plan.

√  A BOOK PUBLISHED THIS YEAR: My Name is Lucy Barton by Elizabeth Strout. Read this one in February.

√  A BOOK YOU CAN FINISH IN A DAY: The Fringe Hours: Making Time for You by Jessica N. Turner. Read this one early on too.

√  A BOOK YOU PREVIOUSLY ABANDONED: Originally I planned to read A World Made New by Mary Ann Glennon. Instead, this book was a delightful way to complete the category: As You Wish: Inconceivable Tales from the Making of The Princess Bride by Cary Elwes. People rave about the audio version of this book, FYI.

√  A BOOK RECOMMENDED BY YOUR LOCAL LIBRARIAN OR BOOKSELLER: Crooked Letter, Crooked Letter by Tom Franklin was a staff pick at my local library and one of my favorites.

A BOOK YOU’VE BEEN MEANING TO READ: Still Life by Louise Penny. This is the first book in the Inspector Gamache series, and I’d been meaning to read it for a while and finally picked it up. While I wasn’t wowed, I’ve been convinced by the reading powers that be to stick with the series for a big payoff and recently placed book #2 on hold.

6 Categories To Go …

A BOOK THAT INTIMIDATES YOU: Although I did find a copy of Finnegan’s Wake at a used bookstore in Brooklyn, I’ve decided that I don’t really want to read it. Does anyone really want to read Finnegan’s Wake? Instead, I’m going to dive into Anna Karenina by Leo Tolstoy. Russian literature is intimidating but worth the effort.

A BOOK YOU’VE ALREADY READ AT LEAST ONCE: I’m sticking with my original pick, Coming Home by Rosamund Pilcher. It’s one of my all-time favorite books and a great re-read.

A BOOK YOU SHOULD HAVE READ IN SCHOOL: Instead of reading Crime and Punishment, I’m going to tackle George Eliot’s Middlemarch, which I was supposed to read in my Victorian literature class when I studied abroad in Ireland in 2001. I’m not sure how I managed to get away with not reading it then, but …  better 15 years late than never?

A BOOK CHOSEN BY YOUR SPOUSE, PARTNER, SIBLING, CHILD, OR BFF: I’m sticking with It by Stephen King, recommended by my husband Dave.

A BOOK PUBLISHED BEFORE YOU WERE BORN: Ever since we watched a TV special about the 1950s that highlighted the interesting, sad story of Grace Metalious and Peyton Place, I’ve been wanting to read the book. Plus, I’m a New Hampshire housewife, so I could pretty much write a 21st century version of this book.

A BOOK YOU OWN BUT HAVE NEVER READ: Couldn’t Keep It To Myself, a compilation of stories written by the women Wally Lamb works with at the York Correctional Institution, has been on my shelf for a long time. I am inspired by Lamb’s work with, as he calls them, our imprisoned sisters.


That’s the plan. I might make more changes as I go, but I’m determined to meet my 2016 reading goals. What have been your favorite books of 2016 so far? What are you excited to read in the second half of the year?






The Bookspired Linkup (June 2016)

Welcome to The Bookspired Linkup! Each month we share posts that fit The Bookspired Linkup theme: exploring how a book has inspired you. You can read about my inspiration for starting the linkup here. Check out the linked-up posts through the blue inLinkz button at the bottom of this post and add your own, or participate through the comment feature.

Words of Wise Women

Last Friday my favorite podcast, Sorta Awesome, released one of its best shows yet, Episode 63: What We Know Now That We’re Here. You should just download and listen to it because my description won’t do it justice, but it’s basically a pep talk from two lovely big-sister-type ladies (Megan and Kelly) about what they’ve learned about their minds, bodies, and souls thus far in life. It sounds like a heavy topic but they don’t take thylblemselves that seriously, which makes it just right.

After listening to the podcast, I guess I was in an advice-seeking mood, because when I saw that the Kindle version of Eleanor Roosevelt’s memoir You Learn By Living was on sale for $1.99, I immediately bought and downloaded it to start reading during a short road trip. I’m about halfway done with it and although I don’t love all of Mrs. Roosevelt’s advice – She once told a little boy that if he needed to cry, he should go “cry alone into the bathtub” (???) –  many of her words are wise, such as these

“Our emotional interests, our intellectual pursuits, our personal preoccupations, all change. So do those of our friends. So the relationship that binds us together must change too; it must be flexible enough to meet the alterations of person and circumstance.” – Eleanor Roosevelt

My podcast and book choices this week got me thinking about some of the other wise women whose words I’ve taken to heart lately. I’ve been into reading memoirs recently, and I’ve also taken an interest in the self-improvement genre through podcasts and books. Although I like to think I have a good head on my shoulders, I don’t claim to be an expert on most things, and I look for opportunities to learn new things every day. My favorite sources of wise words are lovely, smart, brave, interesting women. Here are just a few of the wise women I’m listening to these days:

Emily Freeman – Simply Tuesday23411600

I bought this book on a whim and thought it would be mildly entertaining or kinda good. I had no idea how connected I would feel to Emily and how much I would take to heart her words about the importance of “small moments.” I gave this book five stars on Goodreads, and I don’t award stars willy-nilly. One of my favorite tidbits:

“But Tuesday teaches me that part of living well in ordinary time is letting this day be good. Letting this day be a gift. Letting this day be filled with plenty. And if it all goes wrong and my work turns to dust? This is my kind reminder that outcomes are beyond the scope of my job description.”   -Emily P. Freeman

Sarah Bessey – Out of Sorts23492740

I joined Sarah’s book launch team for the release of Out of Sorts because A. It sounded like fun, B. I would receive an early (free) galley copy of the book, and, most importantly, C. I was smitten with Sarah’s writing, which I knew from her blog at Sarah is a big picture thinker and seems to be a wonderful combination of funny, serious, and devoted to both her family and her call to preach. There’s something magnetic about her. My favorite nugget from the book:

“May we be the ones who don’t give up on radical inclusion. May we be the ones to whisper to one another, every now and then, on purpose, at the right time: You belong here. There’s room for you. There’s room for all of us.” – Sarah Bessey

Gretchen Rubin – The Happiness Projectthehappinessproject

This was another book I expected to enjoy but ended up loving. Gretchen Rubin is very different from me. She seems extremely intense and driven, and I’m just not that wound up or motivated. But I adore her, and I especially love her tips and tricks for habit formation and increasing happiness in everyday life. What I love most about her, though, is her honesty about her own self-discovery.

“I have an idea of who I wish I were, and that obscures my understanding of who I actually am.”  – Gretchen Rubin

Eleanor, Emily, Sarah, and Gretchen are just a few of the wise women who I’m tuned to these days. I’m always looking for new inspiration – Who are your favorite wise literary ladies?